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September 22, 1998 when my beloved wife passed away after a prolonged illness, I returned to my job at the new car agency until May 1999 when I retired. I was mentally exhausted and had no idea what to do the rest of my life The monotony of work was not fulfilling, the challenge was gone The work I enjoyed was no longer encouraging me to get up in the morning. Was it the depression I felt after my loss? I knew I needed a change. I had been working for 60 years, it was enough. I was 78 years old and felt physically healthy.
I had been studying Tai-Chi for a year and was intrigued by the benefits derived and wanted to know the history of such a wonderful exercise. In 2001 I went to China as a tourist for a 3 week tour and wanted to know China better and to learn more of China where Tai originated. I began to read about Chinese culture and history using the internet. This led me to schools teaching English as a foreign language and the need for teachers in China. This was an excellent way to learn about the people and contribute something of my knowledge to others. I thought "I could do this".
The decision was made. I found a school in Zhuhai in the southern part of China where pollution was small, the weather similar to my home in Vero Beach, Florida and the owner of the school was an unbiased, kind person.I applied to the school, Gateway Language Village, and after a telephone interview was accepted. Very few schools wanted a person of my age so I was excited, someone could see that my experience would be a benefit to the students of this school. |
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August 25, 2002 I arrived in Zhuhai and began what was to become one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. Adjusting to the different culture and customs of a world apart was both challenging and enlightening.
Helping the wonderful, respectful and eager students learn the English language was most rewarding. I served a probationary three months, went back to the USA and was asked to return as a full timer when I was able. I did return shortly thereafter and had to leave after two months as SARS became a scare for my three daughters who thought I was in harms way and should return home. I came back after SARS was under control and planned to stay at least a year.
Life has its ups and downs, no matter where you spend it. China is no exception. People are people no matter where you are, most Chinese proved to be helpful, friendly and kind. Everyday I practice tolerance and patience, as they are necessary skills to survive in a foreign culture. This experience has expanded my perspective on life and provided a fulfilling way to share my experiences while renewing my spiritual growth. |
