September 22, 1998 when my belov ed wife pass ed away after a prolong ed illness, I return ed to my job at the new car agency until May 1999 when I retir ed . I was mentally exhaust ed and had no idea what to do with the rest of my life The monotony of work was not fulfilling, the challenge was gone The work I enjoy ed was no longer encouraging me to get up in the morning. Was it the depression I felt after my loss? I knew I ne ed ed a change. I had been working for 60 years, it was enough. I was 78 years old and felt physically healthy.
I had been studying Tai-Chi for a year and was intrigu ed by the benefits deriv ed and want ed to know the history of such a wonderful exercise. In 2001 I went to China as a tourist for a 3 week tour. I want ed to know China better and to learn more of China where Tai ori gina t ed . I began to read about Chinese culture and history using the internet. This l ed me to schools teaching English as a foreign language and the ne ed for teachers in China . This was an excellent way to learn about the people and contribute something of my knowl ed ge to others. I thought, "I could do this".
The decision was made. I found a school in Zhuhai in the southern part of China where pollution was light, the weather similar to my home in Vero Beach , Florida and the owner of the school was an unbias ed , kind person. I appli ed to the school, Gateway Language Village , and after a telephone interview was accept ed . Very few schools want ed a person of my age. I was excit ed , someone could see that my experience would be of benefit to the students of this school.
August 25, 2002 I arriv ed in Zhuhai and began what was to become one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. Adjusting to the different culture and customs of a world apart was both challenging and enlightening. Helping the wonderful, respectful and eager students learn the English language was most rewarding. I serv ed a probationary three months, went back to the USA and was ask ed to return as a full time teacher when I was able. I did return shortly thereafter, then had to leave after two months as SARS became a scare for my three daughters. They were concern ed that I might be in harms way. They ask ed me to return home. I came back to China after the SARS epidemic was under control, planning to stay at least a year.
Life has its ups and downs, no matter where you spend it. China is no exception. People are people no matter where you are, most Chinese prove to be helpful, friendly and kind. Everyday I practice tolerance and patience, as they are necessary skills to survive in a foreign culture. This experience has expanded my perspective on life and provided a fulfilling way to share my experiences while renewing my spiritual growth. |